Is your partner cheating on you? These 5 signs might confirm it

They’ve become distant, distracted, and oddly protective of their phone. If your gut has been whispering that something isn’t right, it may be time to listen. While these signs don’t guarantee infidelity, they’re worth paying attention to. Let’s take a closer look at five common behaviours that could suggest your partner is being unfaithful.

Sudden secrecy with their phone

One of the most common red flags is a sudden change in how your partner handles their phone. Do they now keep it on silent, hide the screen, or take it with them everywhere—even to the loo? If they’re suddenly private with their device when they never used to be, it might mean they’re hiding messages or calls they don’t want you to see.

Unexplained changes in routine  

Whether it’s late nights at work, or new hobbies we don’t share, vague explanations about their whereabouts could mean they are up to something else. If your partner’s routine has changed without any further explanation, this should not be dismissed. 

There are strange or unexplained expenses (Credit: Freepik)

They are emotionally disconnected and irritated all the time

Cheating often comes with a change in feelings. If your partner's emotions seem withdrawn, uninterested in you, or they just seem to be picking fights for no reason at all, this could be guilt or a sign they are checked out of the relationship mentally. 

There are strange or unexplained expenses

A dramatic jump in spending on items or places that are completely outside of your knowledge is another situation to take note of. Take a peak at those receipts, hotel costs, or that gift you never received. If they act defensive when faced with questions, it should raise a red flag. 

Emotional disconnection and irritability (Credit: Freepik)

Your gut feeling won't let up

Sometimes your intuitive mind knows something your heart is denying. If something bothers you and you feel off, trust yourself and dig deeper into the uncertain feeling. Your gut instinct is not evidence of wrong doing, it is a strong hint.  

Trust matters; if any of these have resonated with you, it is time to have a open and honest discussion with what’s going on. 

Regardless of whether it provides reassurances or confirms your worst fears, clarity is always better than being on the fence.